Alright ladies, do you have a guy you're grooving on, you think the two of you are dating, but he may not be feeling the same way?

Here are a few ways to tell that he definitely doesn't think of you as a real girlfriend.


His status on Facebook is still listed as "single"- Not a good sign. Granted he might not be into the whole status of Facebook thing, but he should definitely not say he is "single" don't you think?

He hasn't told you where he currently lives- If he always has a reason why you can't come over to his place. Chances are the real reason is, he doesn't want you to know where he lives. It will make things much easier for him when he eventually kicks you to the curb later on.

When he introduces you to someone, he doesn't say this is my "girlfriend"- If he's not telling people you are his girlfriend, you aren't.

His friends don't even know you exist- If he really wanted you to be a part of his life, he would be telling his friends all about you.

He doesn't pay for anything for you- It's not that he has to pay for everything as a boyfriend. But don't you think he should probably pick up the tab every once and while? If you two seem to be going Dutch all the time, he's not your boyfriend.

He never discusses his future plans- If he never mentions anything to you about the future and where you fit in. Then sorry to say, you probably don't have a future together.


If you are currently experiencing any of these warning signs, it's time to have that little chat to find out exactly where you stand. Then make a determination on whether you need to move on.