Routine. Some people strive for it and some people loathe it. But when it comes to your love life, the word “routine” can be synonymous with the word “rut.” Or maybe even boring. And that is something no one strives for. Here are some ways to spice up your love life.

Spice it up a little: Try switching up when and where you and your partner make love. An unexpected rendezvous on the dining room table might be just the thing to excite your lover and your impulsiveness will add to their feeling of being desired. Or maybe try casually joining your partner in the shower, just be sure there is plenty of time to get dirty before getting clean! And next time you meet your partner at home for lunch, throw in a quickie to brighten their afternoon.

Spice it up some more: Games can also be a fun and flirty way to build up the sexual tension. Sometimes role-playing can be a great release from everyday realities too. You can pick a full character/costume or just pick-up some new and sexy lingerie. Trying a stimulating or flavored gel can definitely add some excitement to the bedroom too!

Spice it up a lot: Try introducing new ways to play. Foreplay that is! Sex-toys can offer new styles of stimulation. Handcuffs can allow you to really focus on feeling the pleasure. And naughty movies… well you might just be surprised that women enjoy porn just as much as men!

What it all comes down to is exploration… Start exploring each other’s fantasies… desires… and bodies!